Allah Brought You Here For A Reason
“Everything in your life, including your relationships, either brings you closer to or further from Allah ta’aala.
Either through their sweetness or their bitterness, you can become Allah’s most beloved human.”
Sharpen Your Focus on The Core of Your Islamic Purpose And Sit Back While You Gain the Clarity to Reshape Your Relationships.
Join The Waitlist For Her Serene Love Today And Find Your Tribe of Healing Sisters
Am I broken?” (no) “Is anyone ever going to understand me?” (yes) “When will I start receiving instead of always giving?” (once you’re ready to change) “am I not enough to them?” (not if you’re not enough to yourself)
The Quality of Your Life is Determined By The Quality of Your Relationships.
- Your heart is huge—you know it, I know it, and we all know it. You deserve more peace and love in your relationships.
- The power of true sisterhood is waiting for you, where we discover new and exciting layers of ourselves. together we completely change the paradigm- for a way better template of love and attachment.
- If you’re ready to reinvent (and reinvest in!) yourself as a wife, mother, daughter or friend, and want to be able to give and receive super healthy love, this is it.
The Power of Group Work...
“The sessions was lovely. It was soo nice to be in sessions with other sisters striving the same ways as one self. The sessions for me was very much also for me a way to re charge and re focus on what's important for me in life” - I. from Tanger, Morocco
“I would say I loved the sessions they were always filled with so much gems alhamdulilah, even though at times I would think some of the discussion wasn’t relevant to me I would end up actually benefitting so much and think subhanallah Allah really wanted me to hear that. So I would say that was the best feeling like Allah is supporting you along the way !” - S. from The United Kingdom
“Having a platform to express and have others hear you thoughts and fears and validate that you’re not alone was totally liberating for me. I’ve sat in my head for so long I thought everyone else’s life was perfect and I was just a weak flawed mess. To hear others who I respect and advice voice concerns I have myself and then to feel so much compassion allowed me to step outside myself and give myself the same compassion for my own doubts. It allowed me to start loving myself again, and to let the shame go . I needed to be in this environment of Muslim sisters who loved me fisibillah and allowed me to bare my flaws and still respected and honoured me. Wallah I needed it.” - S., also from The United Kingdom
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Have you ever felt that hollow ache inside, like something is missing? Like you don’t belong?
There is physical safety and there is emotional safety. If we’re blessed with the first, we often think it ends there and we should be fine. But does it?
We all need fulfilling and sincere relationships, at least some, to feel safe.
And feeling safe is necessary for thriving (living in purpose, consistent motivation, good health, managing your family…)
Yes, you need emotional safety to stay physically healthy. It’s that important.
But what if .. they’re not satisfying? What if you feel like you have to put in a ton of effort to get only a little back from people?
You finally get that’s why you’re so tired, and not because you need more omega 3 or liver detoxes.
There’s an aching void within yourself, crying to be filled with love, sweetness, understanding…
You’re way too unclear on your boundaries, feel way too guilty for setting them if you do have them, are way too scared to ruffle some feathers - afraid to lose the little bit of connection you have now.
For you it’s not so simple as just “start telling people what you want and don’t want”, to you that’s an unrealistic utopia and you don’t think most people would understand anyway.
You crave more love, attention and feeling attractive in your life
Not just by your (future) husband;
- You want everyone to treat you like they’re happy to have you in their life instead of having to hustle for your place in it.
- You don’t feel grounded and sure of who you are- wondering if maybe you’ve been wearing masks as part of your efforts to be loved and accepted?
- Sometimes you feel like a little girl again, waiting for the compliments, praise and affection that never came.. (unless you excelled in school.)
- You’re deeply craving to just let your guard down, be yourself, be allowed to make mistakes and still be chosen, appreciated, loved
As time goes on,
your brain wires deeper and deeper on the patterns you’re used to (which is why you see elderly people sometimes being 10 times as grumpy as before, or settling deeper into a victim mindset).
Reinforcing not only unfulfilling dynamics in your existing relationships but also the type of thoughts and feelings you have!
How often do you feel defensive? Abandoned? Unimportant? Used? Scared? Bored?
How often do you stand on the brink, looking into the abyss, feeling like you can fall into it at any given moment..?
That’s the price we pay for not mustering the courage to choose a different direction and rewire our brain and nervous system to serve us and our relationship goals in life.
Say AYE if…
- You set boundaries with people either too harshly, afterwards feeling guilty and evil, or you set them too gently, feeling resentful that you couldn’t protect your peace and sometimes even that of your family.
- You often feel irritated and even resentful towards your closest people, your kids, spouse, parents or siblings…
- You feel guilty when you prioritize your own needs or when you say no, even to unreasonable requests